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 Categories : Anxiety Boundaries Confidence Cord Cutting Energy Healing Stress Worthiness

 
                                                        
Here’s the thing….. the people you have the most contact 
with and hanStressed young black woman, sitting at a tableg around with will have either a positive or negative 
effect on your self-esteem, energy and happiness. 
We all know those people who are positive, happy and
joyful to be around. How do they make you feel?
They make you feel the same, right? They have an uncanny
ability to fill the room with positive, feel good vibes.
And we also know people who just zap the life right out of you! These energy vampires are victims, who complain about everything. They seem to be a magnet for negativity. Good things never happen to them.
They are always putting people down, they don’t like others to be successful, they are jealous, negative thinkers - you get the point! 
 These people drain your energy and bring you down to their level, a million miles away from the level that YOU
want to operate on.
Often these people are your family members. While you can't choose your family, you CAN choose your friends. 
So what should you do to make sure the people you hang around, empower and support what you stand for rather than bring you down all of the time?
1. You have the power to choose who you hang around with. Ideally you want happy, vibrant and positive people.  You can create a healthy distance with everyone else or gradually and lovingly release them from your life. 
2. BOUNDARIES. If you have good friends who are negative and you still want to hang around them, let them know how you feel – if they are a true friend they will respect you for this. If they are negative from time to time just acknowledge that this is what they are like and block out the negativity. Dont feed it with your own negativity. 
3. The same can be said with family. Your more mature  family members have developed behaviors that have
 been conditioned for years and years. Appreciate where  they have come from and then do number 2.
4. PERSPECTIVE.  Remember, that nothing has meaning in life except the meaning that you give it. Dont sweat the small stuff. 
5. Get a cord cutting from me STAT! You already know this is an amazing must do healing process (check the link to learn more), especially if you want a healthy relationship and plan to keep an energy vampire in your life or you want to peacefully permanently let one go from your life. 
6. Boost your Confidence and self-esteem so its easy as pie to have appropriate boundaries and get what you want
from friends, family and out of your life. People pleasing and saying YES when you really mean NO is a no-no with energy vampires. Givers have to set limits because takers rarely do. You can never give an energy vampire enough of your energy! 
Order my Magnetic Confidence On Demand Course now, while its on SALE! It will give you all the tools you need to set appropriate limits. 
 
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 Posted on : January 23, 2015 - Last updated on Jul 11, 2016
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